Abusive=cheating?
Hopefully I know myself well enough to know I wouldn't cheat. I do know myself well enough that I'm certain I won't stay in an abusive relationship. I only spent a brief period of time in one, very brief.
Not the same thing! Each situation is unto itself a unique situation. That is all. I dislike judgmentalism in general. No worries Stacy, this comment was not directed towards you. It was directed towards anyone who would prematurely judge others for their behaviour without knowing the back story.
~Aztec