Shrug. I got edited. I think the red edit signals add a certain cachet to my post. Like a parental advisory warning.
LOL!
Inflammatory? Try rubbing some Neosporin on it.
No thanks!
Haughty and scornful is something I wanted to show off, to point out the intrinsic troll effect of such a topic thread and title.
Again Czar, he didn't attack people, he attacked belief systems. Why is that wrong? Show me please! I've had my beliefs challenged many times and I thank the people who did so.
I like LR too! I've had nice chat sessions with him. It seemed like he wanted to play mudslingers with someone who had another opinion, ergo, I took up the challenge.
He's a good guy so I'm not surprised that the two of you got along. You're both interesting people. I don't think he wanted to play "mudslingers" though. He actually seemed a bit distraught when I talked to him on the phone. (Sorry Brad)
your boyfriend DID characterize those who believe them as being stupid
Number 1) not my boyfriend although he is a boy (errr man) and my friend. Number 2) He's correct. The things he mentioned are stupid although, I disagree with him that those who believe in them are. People believe things for whatever reasons and it's not really for me to judge.
should I just let him call my worldview stupid and therefore dismiss everything I have to say?
Of course not but, there is a better way to debate things. He didn't ad hominem attack YOU he attacked your belief system. Major differance!
I just want him to THINK before he posts a thread like that, one with words calculated to insult and wound people, not beliefs. There are people who actually get seriously enraged and hurt when things like that get thrown around - especially on a thread dedicated to those who are struggling to emerge from a cult.
I agree with you completely! Bradley is a piece of work sometimes. He's really a nice guy who is just a bit over curious at times. Maybe I overreact in defense of him cause I truly view him as a little brother and I just want to protect him. This board does need some controversial posts though. It can't all be healing and support. We need to step out and challenge our thought systems at times. Actually, that is an important part of the healing process; learning to think critically. I'm not great at it but, I'm learning.
Thank you Czar for your response.
~Aztec