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  Far fewer references to lesbians

  by Doug Mason in

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  i notice that while a search of the wt library reveals many references to homosexuals, there are few references to lesbians.. does the wts include women when it uses the term homosexual?.

  when discussing masturbation, does it mention both sexes?.

  i am asking out of pure ignorance, seeking clarification.. my only comment is that religion of every shade has difficulty with the subject of sexual activity, as if it were something that is not part of nature.. doug.

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  JustMe2

  Diogenesister

  "...as a teenager...I felt more guilted...

  as if I was a freak for being a girl with a sex drive."

  As well you should, Diogenesister, as well you should. A public speaker giving a talk on marriage discussed the need for communicating one's desires in order to have a happy sex life. Apparently only the husbands needed to do the communicating, however, because wives would gain happiness not by focusing on their own desires but by working to fulfill their husbands'.

  This was no old fogey of a Witness; he was probably only in his thirties. I felt sorry for his wife if he believed what he was saying and lived in harmony with it.

  If I remember correctly, a similar point of counsel was made in one of the magazines. How edifying.
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  me and my new girlfriend

  by justthenorm in

  1. jw
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  you see ive started dating this girl and her family is of strong jehova belief.

  now i am not i do see certain things in there studie that is true in my opinion but ive never really been a religion type of person.

  i think i want to marry her but i am not a jehovas witness and am not looking to be anytime at all she says that is ok and we can still get married but i dont know how its possible or where we would even do it please i need advice

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  JustMe2

  If I understand you correctly, you're concerned about where or how you could get have the wedding. Depending on where you live, that's the easy part. You could have a civil marriage, perhaps being married by a judge. (If you're not a Witness, you can NOT be married at the Kingdom Hall.)

  What you really need to worry about, though, is what your life will be like AFTER you're married. That's the really hard part if you marry a Witness.
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  me and my new girlfriend

  by justthenorm in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  you see ive started dating this girl and her family is of strong jehova belief.

  now i am not i do see certain things in there studie that is true in my opinion but ive never really been a religion type of person.

  i think i want to marry her but i am not a jehovas witness and am not looking to be anytime at all she says that is ok and we can still get married but i dont know how its possible or where we would even do it please i need advice

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  JustMe2

  I was trying to hit "Like" on John Free's comment, and accidentally hit "Dislike" instead. Sorry!
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  me and my new girlfriend

  by justthenorm in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  you see ive started dating this girl and her family is of strong jehova belief.

  now i am not i do see certain things in there studie that is true in my opinion but ive never really been a religion type of person.

  i think i want to marry her but i am not a jehovas witness and am not looking to be anytime at all she says that is ok and we can still get married but i dont know how its possible or where we would even do it please i need advice

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  JustMe2

  If she believes what the Witnesses teach, she will believe that you are going to be killed at Armageddon. If she is active in the congregation, she may be angry at you because you're not "serving Jehovah and taking care of the family the way husbands should," (going to the meetings, out in service, etc.). Or she may be very sad because of it, or she may feel she's better than you because you're in "the world." Or maybe all three. None of these will make your marriage happy.

  You may think she would never feel this way, but these are the feelings of many Witness women who have "unbelieving mates"--and an "unbelieving mate" is what you will be in Witness eyes.
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  Where are they now? Long, lost JWs

  by Bro-jo in

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  2. friends

  if it has not already been done, i would like to introduce a new topic.

  for me, i would like to know the whereabouts and what's up with some of my former friends and acquaintances.

  to start: some folks i used to be close to at cape cod mass: bob and pam fragosa , dick and valerie davis, charles harutunian (sic).

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  Does anyone know Melanie Chaneske (maiden name), originally from Scottsdale, Arizona?
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  Where are they now? Long, lost JWs

  by Bro-jo in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  if it has not already been done, i would like to introduce a new topic.

  for me, i would like to know the whereabouts and what's up with some of my former friends and acquaintances.

  to start: some folks i used to be close to at cape cod mass: bob and pam fragosa , dick and valerie davis, charles harutunian (sic).

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  JustMe2

  Jack Ashenback died a few years ago, either in Florida or South Carolina. He had Alzheimer's disease, early-onset, I believe.
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  Who Are Your Past Circuit Overseers? It's a small world..

  by mentallyfree31 in

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  2. beliefs

  who were your past circuit overseers?

  i'm sure a lot of us actually know mutual people, as the co's relocate all over the country.. here's a few from the southeast us: (let me know if you recognize any names and post yours too please...).

  ellwood johnson (new york/philadelphia area for several years also).

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  JustMe2

  Substitute C.O.s:

  David Tennent

  Alan Sexton

  Nat Gulotta

  C.O. or D.O.:

  (Frank???) Bartell
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  Who Are Your Past Circuit Overseers? It's a small world..

  by mentallyfree31 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  who were your past circuit overseers?

  i'm sure a lot of us actually know mutual people, as the co's relocate all over the country.. here's a few from the southeast us: (let me know if you recognize any names and post yours too please...).

  ellwood johnson (new york/philadelphia area for several years also).

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  JustMe2

  Some from between 1968 and 1985 (I don't remember the names of those from after 1985 to about 2005):

  Fred and Mildred Schilling

  ? and Lou Walker

  DiCinti (DeCinti?)

  Barry and Kitty Sobieski

  John and Diana Peterson

  Don and Natasha Amy

  Henry and ? Casper

  John (and Ruth) Chimiklis

  Joseph Scaglione (circuit or district?)

  Jerry and Chris Crana

  John and Anne Arbore (Pioneer School--from a neighboring circuit)
  
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  JW Sister: raped, pregnant what does she do?, abortion or adoption?

  by Olivia Wilde in

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  2. beliefs

  this question came out frequently from a situation known to some of us who knew of 2 cases.... if a single or married sister gets rapped by stranger or incest, a pregnancy results, she is not allowed to have an abortion but neither is she allowed to give it up for adoption?...i always question why not up for adoption?...

  no you will be blood guilty because the child won't be raised in the "truth"... hmmmmm does anyone heard of that?

  is it a matter of consciousness?

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  JustMe2

  If I remember correctly, it wasn't a conscience matter, at least not years ago. The mother would be responsible for seeing that the child would be brought up properly. I think that even having other Witnesses adopt the baby would not be an option because there would be no guarantee that they would remain faithful.
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  2015. Annual meeting

  by obarac in

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  any news?

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  JustMe2

  Maybe I missed the answer, but I haven't seen what the changes regarding Ezekiel are. Has the meaning of the mark changed?