IslandWoman, there are issues I have with the teachings of the Society that you didn't mention. There are many, many more conflicts I have such as discouraging members from getting professional help, their horrible idea that Armageddon is around the corner, the 5 meetings a week, the game of "which publisher can put in the most hours this month", Their views on sex and any sexual practices, do I need to go on??
The thing is I don't personally have a problem with the people who follow the Society's rules. They've been either lured into the religion, or they were born into it. Some may wake up and discover what's really going on, some will stay fooled forever. The Society is the root of the problem, not the average JW. The sad part is if you tell an average JW that the Society is evil, they'll automatically think that you don't believe in God.