Janiemh, I can relate. My daughter had to have emergency surgery last year for a severe knee infection she developed from contracting Gonorhea (sp?). My daughter was 16 at the time, rebellious, etc. After she was released from the hospital, she had an antibiotic IV in her arm for 6 weeks. Since I had to work, and she needed help with the IV, my mother allowed my daughter to go stay with her and my father for the first week, then my daughter would have learned how to change the IV solutions herself, etc. Anyway, the entire week my daughter was there at their house, my father acted as though my daughter wasn't even there. He never said one, single solitary word to her, didn't acknowledge when she said anything to him, she tried to hug him and he turned away. I didn't even know this was going on until she came home and told me, otherwise I would have brought her home right away and told my father to *&%# off! Whether this is something that comes from the org, I can only say that from my experience with my father and my family, it was something they learned from their involvement with the org. Now that the org has begun treating disassociated ones as if they are df'd, this will only increase. My daughter was never baptized, and my father had no good reason to completely avoid my daughter as though he hated her.