sundialer

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  is it possible to love and be in love with two people at the same time?

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  I don't feel like I'm completely nuts, just filled with sadness and longing.
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  she wants nothing to do with me, so I guess the point is moot.

  But my love for her is unbelievably powerful, she owns a piece of my very soul. And I have never met her in person, how whacky is that?
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  The girl I am with now is relatively new. The other one, for whom my feelings are actually stronger, I have been intimate with emotionally for a long time, but is far away and unavailable.
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  I would not be offended by anything anyone posts here. I'm just trying to get a handle on what I am experiencing at the moment, thank you all for your input.
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  But both of these have emotional depth that takes them out of that category.
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  That describes my situation exactly, although the circumstances are rather unusual. One of the people is here in my life, the other is someone I have never met, but have had a long-running long-distance e-mail/phone relationship with. It is the unavailable person whom I have known intimately the longest and that I have the more powerful feelings for, but she is, well, unavailable for the forseeable near future.
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  Yes, carlessness is one of my trademarks. I can't stay away from a slippery slope sometimes.
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  This situation is consuming way too much of my consciousness right now.
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  And I have no answer for it.
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  But my situation is much more unusual than that, and I am not sure I want to tell the whole story in this forum.

  Suffice it to say that I am unbelievably torn.