Nope but I made sure I got some when I wasn't one anymore. It only took me 26 years
ikhandi
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Poll- Did you have sex while unmarried when you were a JW?
by FreeofGuilt ini probably was the biggest slut in the kh- sex before baptized @ 13- sex after baptism when i was 17. oral sex about 5 times w/ different guys from the kh-- what can i say, i loved being a rebel, & love sex- i think the elders liked it to because i had to tell them the details (some guy always told), & they would probably get off later- never was disfellowshipped-- i am a good actress, but i thought the "holy spirit" guided them, well not because they believed my sobbing- --:-) kristine
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New 2 board; I would like to introduce myself!
by NubianIsMe inhi i'm marilyn!.
i just found this board today via a link from randy at free minds.
yea!
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ikhandi
WELCOME! Hope you stay. looking forward to hearing the rest of your story.
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ikhandi
Its just a label since when does a label define an individual? So what happens after you hit 5000 as a sumpreme. Do you disapear into oblivion?
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What I Don't Miss at a District Convention
by simplesally inname the things you don't miss about going to a dc!
---getting there so early and then find that the "servants" have saved all the good seats
---not having time to make a decent lunch and getting admonished about not buying from nearby vendors.
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ikhandi
The best part of the conventions was socializing through the assemblies with my girls and scoping out some of the cute brothers who were holding those ridiculous signs that read"keep moving"
Sitting in the bleachers in the nose bleed section with binoculars and personal fans
Staring at the damn time clock wondering when I am going to get the hell out of here
Walking down those narrow stairs about to fall and break my azz in heels.
Seeing people I hated, and pretending to like them
Being on clean up duty for the womens bathroom.
When they dimmed the lights for the dramas you could finally go to sleep.
The mad dash to the stage to get those plastic flowers and leftover carpet
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Is There Something You Want To Get Off of Your Chest or Vent About???
by minimus inone of the great things that this board offers is the ability to express yourself.
sometimes, things we couldn't tell a person to their face, we can express here.
or we might be able to give of ourselves, our experiences, our joys and frustrations......you name it!.......regarding my vent, it is that i can't understand why some post on these boards and yet are very pro witness.
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ikhandi
ALL THE BLATANT HATERS ON THIS BOARD. LET PEOPLE BE WHO THEY ARE. SO WHAT IF THEY SHOW THEIR AZZ.
Dan the man your a little biased toward rap. They're are many forms of rap. I will take rap over rock music anyday.
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Get Over It
by ApagaLaLuz inyou know what folks...... why waste all your time reliving the damn assemblies and bullshit that goes on?
i figure those of you who have been "out " for quite a while, get over it.
there's life outside the jws and it's great!
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ikhandi
You know I posted a thread like this a few months ago. I wasn't intending to mean, but I got some really nasty responses. I agree there has to be a time when you let all this crap go meaning posting on jwd, reliving experiences, letting this religion take over your mind. Hell I don't know if I will be even be here three months from now, never mind a year later. I simply don't care anymore. To me it's a sign I have moved on.
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It's Arrived!
by Wolfgirl in.
my copy of crisis of conscience arrived today.
i can barely put it down.
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ikhandi
I finally read that book this past february and it was an eye opener. I always knew the book existed, but didn't have enough courage to buy it and read, afterall it was supposed to be poison. I am really curious though as to how many active jws read it and still want to go back. Reading that book was a turning point in my life.
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ikhandi
November of 99 was my last meeting when my name was read. Why I went that night I don't know. Maybe to see the look of shock on peoples faces. Actually I went to this years circuit assembly but only on Sunday. No way I could stomach two full days of that stuff. I have no more feelings to want to go ever again, besides you hear that same stuff over and over. What gives?
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Name Things That You Can't Do If You Are A Witness
by minimus inthere are so many things that you can't do if you are one of jehovah's witnesses.
for example, you can't salute the flag or stand for the national anthem.
can you think of different things you can't do if you're a witness??
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ikhandi
Can't question wts teachings without suffering some real consequences.
Support Silent Lambs- how can all those poor people be lying about sexual abuse?
Use your brain to think intelligently for yourself. I could go on and on but I digress!
Stand up for yourself even if your standing alone SMILE!
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Did you take down notes at the meetings?
by JH inwere you the type to always jot down every little detail the brothers said from the podium?.
i found it amusing when especially sisters were always writting notes in their pads when the brother was giving a talk in the front.. i wonder if it was because they found the topic interesting, or because they wanted to look as if they were learning something.. i was all ears, but never took down notes.
that's odd, coming from a person who is "visual".
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ikhandi
At the weekday meeting no. At the conventions and assemblies yes. It was a way for me to stay awake and act like I was getting something out of the meeting. I still have my old notes and when I read them over none of them make sense anymore.