Miss.Fit

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  apologies to ubms.....confessions from the o

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  I was very inexperienced but was determined to keep my virtue. You didn't know this but I had arranged for my friend to stop by the DD to check you out. We wanted to make sure you weren t an axe murderer.

  She gave you a thumbs up. I arranged for her to meet me later.

  We had a great time. I was trying to bury my guilt about breaking the rules. But you were so sweet and considerate. I could not see how it could be wrong to spend time with you.

  Remember how fast I jumped out of your car when you got to my car? You leaned over and I was already out the door.

  I figured that I had blown it. But the next day you sent over a dozen roses with a note that said" same time same place"and then called me at work to see if I got them. How could I resist? After the second date you asked if I trusted you enough to let you see where I live so you could pick me up f or our next date.

  Sweetheart you will never know how much courage it took for me to tell you I was a JW. Do you remember the talk I had with you. I was trying to live in 2 worlds. I wanted to be honest with you. I didn

  . we laughed about how fast I jumped out of your car after you. Broght me back to my car. Remember how you leaned over toward me......and how fast
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  apologies to ubms.....confessions from the o

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  I will address this to my own UBM:

  honey I can't believe that we have been married for over 26 years. every year my love for you has grown. remember when we met? I was working at a fast food place, and you would come in and order two sandwiches and a large drink everyday.

  I was 19 andliving on my own.

  You did not know this at the time,that I was a struggling J. W.I was raised to believe that it was wrong to date anyone that was not A Jay. W.but what can I say ? You had a beautiful smile and when you asked me out I had to say yes. I almost changed my mind..but my co-workers cheered me on and my best friend was dating a non JW and she seemed happy. So I decided to take a chance. There wasn't very many prospects at the hall and I was lonely.

  Remember how I made you meet me at the Duncan donuts?

  After all you were "worldly"aand I didn't know you. I was really scared and nervous I was going against everything I had been taught.
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  apologies to ubms.....confessions from the o

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  To all you non JWs who have married a JW.....or ex-jw who decided to go back...

  I do not claim to speak for all JW spouses who decided to marry out of the faith. But I might give you some perspective and insight to your mate.

  If you can bear with me and my posting I will tell you my side of the story.

  Missy
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  apologies to ubms.....confessions from the o

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  Confessions from the dark side.
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  apologies to ubms.....confessions from the o

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  Are there ever any scriptural reasons why a man would get a separation from his wife?

  by CrackingTheWhip in

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  220-221 the bibles view on divorce and separation ***.

  willful nonsupport.

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  Welcome crackingthewhip, I notice you are new. Most of us newbies post a thread to introduce ourselves. Just say you are new and share as much as you are comfortable. Hope to hear more about you. Sorry things aren't going well with your wife. Are there extras you can cut down on? Perhaps if she has to start sacrificing some things she might be willing to contribute more. They do say simplify. So if she wants to pioneer- what is she willing to give up? Missy
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  Sickening Dilemma

  by ItsMyLife in

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  i would like to have your opinions on what i should do about a situation please.. i have recently discovered that a 'brother' in the congregation (which i no longer attend) is a child molester.

  i've seen documentation from his psychiatrist dated a few years ago, stating that he doesn't feel that this person is likely to offend again.

  the 'brother' has said to the elders at some point that he has it under control but cannot be 100% sure it won't happen again.

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  LisaRose.... I just do not understand the reasoning. Do they not understand it is a crime?....Even harden criminals in prison look down in contempt on child molesters. Would not a loving and just God feel the same?

  Because this is so well hidden, when JWs hear of a case they think it is an exception. They do not know how prevalent it is.

  I hope itsmylife was able to let someone know.

  Missy
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  Sickening Dilemma

  by ItsMyLife in

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  i would like to have your opinions on what i should do about a situation please.. i have recently discovered that a 'brother' in the congregation (which i no longer attend) is a child molester.

  i've seen documentation from his psychiatrist dated a few years ago, stating that he doesn't feel that this person is likely to offend again.

  the 'brother' has said to the elders at some point that he has it under control but cannot be 100% sure it won't happen again.

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  Hello Itsmylife: I am fairly new here and found this thread. Do you have an update that you are comfortable in sharing?

  How did it turn out? Did the fiancee find out about the pedophile? Others might learn from your experience.

  I admire your bravery.

  Missy
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  My son

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  Welcome. Take your time. I had trouble posting the first time. I look forward to "meeting" you.

  There are a lot of nice people here with great advice. You will find that many that you will be able to relate to.

  As I read some of the posts I have found many echos of my feelings and experiences.

  You are on a safe place here with loving, supportive people.

  ps . If you have questions about using this site or posting ..someone here will be able to help. They are very helpful. Missy Someone suggested to me to use chome....it seems to work better.

  Missy
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  Never say never

  by zed is dead in

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  i really thought that i would never go to another memorial service at a kingdom hall ever again.

  i found out today that a man that i truly respected as a man passed away recently.

  his daughter call me to let me know.. even though i haven't spoke to them in years, i still consider them family.

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  Zed- My deepest sympathies. I thought of you today. I know it must have been a tough time for you.

  Missy