Doesn't it feel good to be able to support someone else without having to worry about how it will look to others?
No worrying about, what if one of the "friends" see me, or what if a "non-witness" that knows I'm a "witness" see me coming out of a church...will it bring reproach on Jehovah?
All that extra stress and pressure - just to control and keep up appearances. It doesn't matter that you are not there for yourself and simply supporting someone else in their own journey. In JW world, that's a no no!
It's great that you are neither encouraging or discouraging, but still being supportive. That's the definition of unconditional love and support!
Let us know how it goes.