FlyingHighNow,
I think that you put much more restrictions on the evangelist than the atheist.
If an evangelist states that they believe XYZ is required for salvation, it is not their fault if it hurts someones opinion. They are stating their belief. If you do not agree with their position, why do you care?
Calling someone names is just plain rude. I hold to my previous position. Over the years, I generally see atheist engaging in more name calling.