Heh.
When they start asking me questions - well, you questions (duh), I suggest giving the kind of answers that make them have more questions. It totally freaks them out.
"Why haven't you been to meetings?"
"Well, its been tough, with all thats going on - ya know."
"yeah, like what?"
"Well, you know, the money situation, the family problems, you know"
"What family problems?"
"Ah - just like all families, I guess."
"Like What?"
"You know - personal things"
"You can tell me anything, you know"
" I know."
.................................
"So, what has been really keeping you from meetings?"
"I just told you......"
Don't give them one concrete thing. They are free to say whatever lies they want from then on out! It works like a charm.