Ahmen to what everyone else said....
He is privately reproved b/c of YOU. (more than likely, anyways. You may correct me if I'm wrong, but that is probably it...) That alone should show you just how bizarre they can be... and if you don't believe me, go to your congregation, nay, any congregation and see what types of people are usually in there. You will find no love, something that Jesus said would be a mark of his disciples.... and, you will find that they are "ravenous wolves" in sheeps clothing. I have never heard a scripture more accurately describe the religion in my life. What is their response to all this bickering? Well, we're all imperfect..... That only holds water for so long. After 10 years, and about 7 congregations, you get tired of that pretty fast.