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  WTS overboard w/suggested presentation

  by doinmypart in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  the nov 2013 km contains an article that is ridiculous in its level of minutae.. they focus on the word "because".

  they tell jws to use the word "because" when explaining why they're at the homeowner's door.

  writing department, you wrote an article on the use of the word "because"?

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  Agreed Island Man

  Holy Spirit shouldn't need sales training.
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  WTS overboard w/suggested presentation

  by doinmypart in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  the nov 2013 km contains an article that is ridiculous in its level of minutae.. they focus on the word "because".

  they tell jws to use the word "because" when explaining why they're at the homeowner's door.

  writing department, you wrote an article on the use of the word "because"?

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  The WTBTS study things like NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programing and all the things they tell the dubs to avoid like the plague.

  The word "because" is supposed to be a NLP trigger word. It is supposed to have a manipulative effect influencing people especially when the word is emphasized in the dialougue. It puts people at ease and is more likely to ellicit permission from the householder to give a presentation because it answers the question WHY? - as in Why are you here?

  NLP is kin to hypnosis. I thought that stuff was linked to spiritism and the Devil?
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  jw.org

  by d in

  1. forum
  2. suggestions

  what do you people here on the forum think of the new jw website.

  i find it strange how when i was jw they made a big deal out of the internet saying it was bad.but now they new this new website and they keep promoting on their literature..

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  DD

  That's unbelievable. I had to look it up myself just to see it.

  They think they're slick by bringing up the subject of propaganda - like they're agaist such a thing.

  They are bold. I will give them that, but always in a one-way conversation. - like jgnat said
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  Honest survey question on effectiveness of 'apostacy'

  by Simon in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  it seems like lots of people have big dreams of 'destroying the watchtower'.

  it's usually linked to a story of how they were wronged and want some revenge.

  do these 'in your face' attempts to convince people that the truth isn't the truth really have an effect?.

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  I think there is a "straw that breaks the camel's back" factor. I think all JW's are carrying at least some doubts and have noticed their fair share of discrepancy.

  It is just a matter of time before many of them have simply had enough. This may be when something bad happens to them or to someone else at the hands of the elders or whatever the case may be.

  I just believe that there are always cracks in the foundation before this happens. Otherwise they would go along the whole "Jehovah is just allowing this to happen for some reason" routine as many "faithful" do.

  I will add this: This new light business is creating cracks for many people. It also reminds people of their old doubts (generation change etc). They aren't leaving immediately, but it piles more on the "camel's back" for when the big "straw" comes down the line or they simply can't take it anymore.

  Sites like this help solidify the "break" once it happens. Jwfacts was priceless for me. This site gave me a place to vent and realize how many people are in the same boat.
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  What was your "Aha!" moment?

  by Hortenzie in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  for me it was when i learned that gb makes their decisions by 2/3 majority vote, not by direction of holy spirit..

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  My aha interestingly came from dealing with things in the congregations I've been in. I have dealt with and seen politics, nepotism, and outright slanderous deceit from elders off and on my entire life.

  As if dealing with the bad seeds wasn't bad enough, the "good guys" would often sit idly by and do nothing. The CO's would turn their heads and even look at concerned publishers as the troublemakers.

  Then one day it hit me.

  I looked at the organization like a business for the first time. When you have rampant problems in a large corporation it is always reflective of the upper management. If you have a back-biting, nasty, political environment in a company, it's because the upper management is indirectly if not directly creating that culture.

  The politics and deep seated problems in the WTBTS go all the way to the top. That's the only explanation of how some of these congregations can get to such a deplorable spiritual level and nothing be done about it. The emphasis on status quo over spirituality goes all the way to the top. I have now confirmed that through research and investigation.
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  "They're only human!" (the most common defence of the Governing Body)

  by Watchtower-Free in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkjk3eyd7ee.

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  Moses performed miracles that proved God's backing.

  Where are the GB miracles?

  I guess the miracle of it taking 6000 hrs of angel-directed field service to produce one baptism?

  I guess the miracle of not understanding who the FDS was until 2013?

  I guess the miracle of teaching a false 'generation' teaching to an entire generation of people?
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  Sometimes you just want to scream

  by Separation of Powers in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  well, i have been posting here on and off for a while now.

  it is good to see the progress that so many have made.

  i have appreciated your experiences, your humour, your struggles, etc.. as i sit here today, i realize that i have made progress as well.

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  I know how you feel SOP.

  I am going through the same thing. Imagine being appointed an elder right when all of this starts coming together for you.

  I can't believe people lap it up like they do either... but then again it hurts to face the truth. You are talking about people's complete world-view being ripped out from under them if they face facts.

  I also am shocked at all the recent talk about money. I mean we all know they are sitting on hundreds of millions of dollars and yet are still constantly asking for more.

  I am waiting for something big to come along and make this easy for us to walk away from. May not happen.
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  for those of you that do'nt go to the meetings anymore you missed.......

  by nowwhat? in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  at our service meeting we studied for half an hour on what our meetings are like!!!!

  through the who is doing gods will brochure.. another letter asking for more more money!.

  an 80 year old brother that was totally giddy he placed two tracts at a door!.

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  We also had a letter about the school for single brothers being combined with the school for christian couples. It will now be called the school for kingdom evangelizers I believe and will include single sisters now.

  They also added this new change and THIS IS A DIRECT QUOTE FROM THE LETTER including the parentheses:

  "Additionally, the maximum age to apply for this school has been raised to 65. The stipu-lation for anyone between the ages of 50 and 65 to apply is that they must be self-sufficient (meaning they can provide for themselves) and are in no need of financial or medical assistance from the organization. As with all of the other students of the school, it is expected that these ones will be willing to move wherever the organization assigns them and that they can care for their material needs wherever they are sent."

  (My Footnote)**So if you listened to us scream the end was coming and are now dirt floor poor in your retirement years - screw you! We won't be giving you a dime of our millions. But you better be willing to move to wherever we tell you to and market our company full-time or you won't get any of this brand-new, piping-hot, special status we just invented.

  The very next part on the meeting went over all the ways you can send them money!

  I mean they will take anything. Money, property, jewelry, stocks, bonds, and they even will accept no-interest loans (ain't that mighty nice of 'em.)
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  Categories of Former Jehovah's Witnesses

  by neverendingjourney in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was never disfellowshipped, but it's been about 10 years since i was an active jw.

  i've made an occasional meeting or half-day at an assembly here or there, strictly at the behest of family (maybe once a year), but i'm completely disconnected.

  more importantly, mentally i'm 100% free.. we all have a tendency to project our views and beliefs onto others, and tending to believe that other former jws share our views is no different.

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  Good Post.

  I forget about group 2 people. They do exist out there though. They need to come on sites like this to move to group 3 or 4 to get past the guilt.
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  JW MECCA!!!! ANY THOUGHTS?!?!

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so...the wife wants to go to new york.

  she wants to visit the holy land and see the new bible museum.

  ( sorry, trying not to vomit..) do you have any idea what it costs to fly to ny and get a room?

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  1) GB T-Shirts

  2) GB autographed silver bibles

  3) New Light scented candles

  4) Stuffed Caleb Dolls (by the way I have a friend with a two year old that just toured NY a couple of weeks ago and they sent us a pic of their kid hugging a life size cut-out of Caleb - No Joke!)

  5) Locks of GB hair (some more rare than others)

  6) Posters of Caleb getting his tail whooped for playing with Sparlock

  7) Commerative Rutherford Scotch

  8) Pioneer Tiaras

  9) "Kiss Me I'm an Elder" Pins

  10) Novelty Duct Tape for Sister's Mouths