Inbetween,
That confusion sounds just like how it felt at our meeting.
Bobcat,
I honestly can't believe those brothers handled it that way. That is absolutely wrong to expect people to come up with a number on the spot.
Not only is it completely a guilt trip along with social pressure, good luck getting numbers the brothers could actually use. Nobody wants to be seen writing a small number. The real contributions will be 1/4 of that total no doubt.
-TE