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  I'm not alone in the congregation, after all

  by ohnightdivine in

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  2. friends

  i can now say that i'm not alone to know ttatt in my congregation, after all.. i have come to know that my close friend is awake, even without me sharing the ttatt with him/her.

  on one of our recent conversations i mentioned about being tired and no longer being uplifted anymore, and my friend then told me he/she was feeling the same.

  i don't know how it happened but we knew we could trust each other.

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  Tosca,

  I cannot imagine how lonely that must have been if you were in for 60 years.. I'm glad you finally found the others, too!
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  I'm not alone in the congregation, after all

  by ohnightdivine in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i can now say that i'm not alone to know ttatt in my congregation, after all.. i have come to know that my close friend is awake, even without me sharing the ttatt with him/her.

  on one of our recent conversations i mentioned about being tired and no longer being uplifted anymore, and my friend then told me he/she was feeling the same.

  i don't know how it happened but we knew we could trust each other.

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  They are aware about the child abuse cases... and other things going on. The biggest concern for them is the "harmony" within their families.

  Since this is one of the most complicated problems a JW would ever face, I think there is no sense to tell my friend what is right or wrong. He/she knows it already and may very well be just waiting until the right time to leave arrives..

  Either way, to all the lurkers here, you are not alone in this journey.

  Warm regards

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  I'm not alone in the congregation, after all

  by ohnightdivine in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i can now say that i'm not alone to know ttatt in my congregation, after all.. i have come to know that my close friend is awake, even without me sharing the ttatt with him/her.

  on one of our recent conversations i mentioned about being tired and no longer being uplifted anymore, and my friend then told me he/she was feeling the same.

  i don't know how it happened but we knew we could trust each other.

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  I hoped for a very long time to find someone nearby who can relate to me.. it really makes a huge difference!

  I'm here to listen to him/her through this distressing period. I also told him/her that if he/she is curious about other WT matters, info is readily available online. I won't tell which site, I won't say this forum, but I know that this friend can figure out many other things in due time. I just don't want to be the one to shove everything to him/her. We both don't want to be labelled as *you know what*.

  Anyhow, I hope more people wake up to The Truth About The Truth.
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  How posting limits now work

  by Simon in

  1. forum
  2. announcements

  anyone who's posted on both the original site and this new one will notice that you no longer get the notice of how many posts you have left.

  there are a few reasons for this.. one reason is scalability - every time you viewed a topic and got the reply at the bottom the server needed to look at your account, count the number of posts in the last 24 hours and work out what to display.

  caching at various places meant this number would sometimes be wrong and there's nothing worse than posting something and it failing.. i went back to basics and thought about what the limits were for and how they could be improved to still protect the site but also give a better user experience.. limits are there for several reasons: to protect against spammers and blabbermouths.

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  Sorry, I might have missed this before but is there a way to delete a post/thread that I just created?

  Thanks in advance, Simon.

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  I'm not alone in the congregation, after all

  by ohnightdivine in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i can now say that i'm not alone to know ttatt in my congregation, after all.. i have come to know that my close friend is awake, even without me sharing the ttatt with him/her.

  on one of our recent conversations i mentioned about being tired and no longer being uplifted anymore, and my friend then told me he/she was feeling the same.

  i don't know how it happened but we knew we could trust each other.

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  I can now say that I'm not alone to know TTATT in my congregation, after all.

  I have come to know that my close friend is awake, even without me sharing the TTATT with him/her. On one of our recent conversations I mentioned about being tired and no longer being uplifted anymore, and my friend then told me he/she was feeling the same. I don't know how it happened but we knew we could trust each other. And so we started to talk about some observations in the teachings and in the actions of the WT.

  Now my friend is going through a rough period because of TTATT, more especially since majority of their family are JWs. This friend is extremely intelligent and I am happy to know that he/she has finally awakened. But the situation is tough and we both told each other that we may return to being active JWs, but he/she said that that would be possible but then the TTATT is already out.

  For the sake of protecting my friend I cannot disclose much more, but I feel a great sense of relief, although I am very sorry to see him/her distressed over this realization. Last week we just spent hours talking about our observations and experiences. We talked about cognitive dissonance, etc. He/she is much smarter than I am, a good person at heart, and I hope that he/she is able to take care of him/herself esp. during this time. This friend said that he/she talked to the siblings about it and was able to gauge that they are already aware of the faults and shortcomings of the org. They are just PIMI because of the family. We promised each other that no matter what happens, we will support each other, and we will not shun each other because it is not the right thing to do.
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  You might have been a JW if...

  by Incognigo Montoya in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ... unlike the rest of humanity, you looked forward to mondays because it was a day off from a meeting..

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  ... you hear the word 'system' and immediately add the phrase 'of things' in your mind.
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  Jehovah's Witnesses Getting Roasted In Comedy Shows

  by pale.emperor in

  1. social
  2. humour

  a selection of my favorite scenes from comedy shows/movies where they poke fun at jehovah's witnesses.

  in the old days whenever they'd mention jws my mum would change channel in outrage.. this one's my favorite!

  skip to 1:19 - .

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  There was one episode in The Nanny where Sylvia Fine was lamenting that she no longer looked attractive to Morty, despite even standing by the door naked. And then she said something like, "meanwhile you will never see another Jehovah's Witness again."

  I just can't find that episode...
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  New JW phrase: bouquet of truth

  by ohnightdivine in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i heard it from someone who attended the latest wt study, and quickly posted it with - you guessed it - a picture of a lovely flower bouquet.

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  "how big is your bouquet of truth?".

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  Artificial Intelligence and 2019

  by fulltimestudent in

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  2. friends

  i was intrigued by a forecast made by damo academy, the in-house technology and science research arm of china's, huge e-commerce business,, alibaba.. they seem to be predicting the following technology trends for 2019 and that artificial intelligence would continue to be the ho area of progress.. so what do any techies hanging out here think?

  safe predictions?

  wild guesses?

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  A number of these tech trends have started to be tackled (advance research stage to prototype development stage) in the R&D department of a tech company where a brother I know works. These are no longer surprising.
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  New JW phrase: bouquet of truth

  by ohnightdivine in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i heard it from someone who attended the latest wt study, and quickly posted it with - you guessed it - a picture of a lovely flower bouquet.

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  "how big is your bouquet of truth?".

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  All this use of lovely words into something else with ulterior and deceitful meaning by the WT is making me sick.

  I mean, why taint the word 'bouquet'?

  Some other words that have changed their meanings (to me):

  1) Time (as in service time; brothers and sisters being 'nice' to you and spending time with you just so they can submit their field service report hours)

  2) Smile (kingdom smile; fake smile; coerced smile)

  3) Privilege (servitude + bragging rights to regular JWs)