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  Secret Santa 2007 (forum gift exchange !!)

  by Angharad in

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  2. friends

  well christimas will soon be here !!.

  for those that are new we have done this for the last few years, what it involves is that those who want to join in will post to this thread and then pm me their name and address.

  i will then collate the names and addresses and assign everyone a person to buy a gift for.

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  Emma

  Count me in! This is my third year!
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  Was There Any Watchtower Interpretation That You Never Quite Understood?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  i knew what the watchtower taught regarding the "faithful & discreet slave class" but how they could ever suggest that "domestics" were "individual members" of the anointed that were given food to the other anointed ones, yet they specifically were not members of the governing body, but the governing body represented the group that would take the lead in feeding others, was beyond me!

  the whole interpretation of the fds doctrine is ridiculous!.

  were there certain things that puzzled you as to how the watchtower could come up with a particular view?

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  Emma

  The blood issue. Either yes or no; how on earth they can justify fractions has always been beyond me. You either pour it out on the ground or you don't.
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  My story- Here goes!

  by Younglove1999 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i've just been writing away the past few days about my thoughts and feelings since my husband and i decided to finally call it quits and stop going to meetings.

  in fact, he's the one who told me about this website.

  he's a lurker though, so i don't think any have heard from him.

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  Emma

  Congratulations on you and your husband making your exit together. It's great that your daughter will be raised free of the cult's teachings, too. We hope to hear more of your story.
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  Is Fading Worth it?

  by undercover in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  from time to time members of jwd will post an experience of receiving a letter or an email from a still believing family member or friend encouraging them to "return to jehovah" or the "organization".

  sometimes an intense amount of guilt is applied to the letter receiver.

  guilt for having left jehovah or for turning their back on their family/friends.

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  Emma

  I think it depends on your family. As soon as I became inactive, I was treated as though disfellowshiped. Perhaps there would have been some satisfaction on my part to be proactive and DA myself.
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  I received a package from my mother today

  by ex-nj-jw in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my dub mother sent me a package today, inside was a nwt bible, a picture of me around age 5 at an assembly - i looked miserable and my dad was holding a battery operated fan in front of me, and a letter, here is the letter.

  i ask that you remember that i was 18 when i left and i'm now 42, that there is a total of 8 children in my family and there are only 2 that are still jw's, oh and that my mother is a complete nutcase!

  dear nj:.

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  Emma

  Even though I've been away from the cult for more than ten years now, that email from your mom kind of grabbed me in the solar plexis! It would be impossible to answer it; there are so many outright lies there, misinformation, insults and insinuations and outright refusal to look at the truth from any angle! That's the kind of circular argument they've perfected! I'm glad you're beyond it. Even if my mom was still alive I don't know how I'd react to something like that. Of course, my mom and sisters never did try, pearls before swine or something!

  I envy your healthy attitude.
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  Those wicked worldly people

  by Paralipomenon in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well twenty days ago, my wife decided to check things out and start reading and posting here.

  i thought i'd give a bit of an update on how things are going because she's still quite reluctant to create a new topic herself.

  she has been reading alot of older posts on the forums and getting caught up, that has led to a few topics or comments by me that she's questioned me on.

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  Emma

  I'm so happy for both of you. Her experience with neighbors mirrors mine. My next door neighbor during the beginning of my fade became like a sister and still is. I told her I didn't know how to make friends and she told me I WAS a friend and doing just fine. My coworkers were close, too, helping me through a divorce after 26 years and getting on my own feet. They were my sisters through those couple of years and I made a point to tell my mom and sisters that. None of my family in the "truth" bothered to see if the kids or I needed anything through those difficult times. So congratulations for seeing the light and being able to make sure your kids don't have to go through the same thing.

  Crisis of Conscience, yeah! I didn't read it for years and wish I would have because it freed me of so many doubts. Glad you're not slow learners like me.
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  Lacking news reports maybe .... Barb Anderson

  by carla in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  if the newspapers/media will not cover the news from barbara anderson maybe a decent size ad in a large circulation newspaper would be helpful to get the word out?

  everybody chip in$?

  anybody good with arranging that sort of ad and willing to use their name to place it?

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  Emma

  A billboard that could be seen from the Brooklyn Bridge would be terrific!
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  5000 PAGES OF DOCUMENTS OF JW PEDOPHILE CASES AVAILABLE! B ANDERSON BOOK

  by Seeker4 in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  barbara anderson has just released a new book on cd that contains some 5000 pages of public court records from the nine lawsuits involving 16 victims that the wts settled secretly in may of this year, plus documents from two other cases the society settled in 2000 and 2006.. .

  its called secrets of pedophilia in an american religion: jehovahs witnesses in crisis.. .

  the book, and more info from barbara about it, is available here:.

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  Well, I've ordered one, too. I just think it's important to have on hand. Hopefully, this will be a huge help to other victims.
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  Growing up a gay Jehovah's Witness (My Life Story)

  by m0nk3y in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i feel the need to express how i feel and felt about my life as a gay man.

  i was brought up from birth as a jehovahs witness.

  this has played a major part in my life and it has been a real struggle to get past.

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  Emma

  Josh, I'm touched at how your story has brought so many new ones to posting; I wonder how long some may have been lurking. Thank you and welcome to the newbies.

  I'm glad to hear you're doing so well, Josh. Keep us up to date on the wedding!
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  How Did YOU Find JWD?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i used to read the old h2o site and i believe they brought up that this place was up......either that or i typed in jws on search.

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  Emma

  Free Minds. Thank you, Randy.