He's always wanted the elders approval and now with this "stand" he's taking he's finally gotten that.- cognac
It's a shame he thinks this way, you are obviously not going back as a submissive wife. I know how it feels, I exposed my ex for domestic violence and he lied to the elders about me to get me DF'd. It sounds like you need to get away for your own sanity.
Take care
Kate xx