Posts by KateWild

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I'm getting baptized

by BlackWolf in

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i know i've started similar topics before but this time i'm serious.

my parents have been constantly pressuring me and after yesterday's watchtower study they asked me if i was going to be baptized this summer... and i said yes.

i probably should have thought about it more before making a final decision, but they're pretty much forcing me to do it anyway.

I know a lot of posters are telling you to not get baptized. But I understand what it's like to be a child of baptized JWs. I was once the JW parent of a 16 year old daughter, who wanted to make her parents happy and wanted to be a good person with good and desirable qualities.

I told my daughter the only way was Jehovah's way and that anything else was Satan's way and did she want to please Satan. She let me control her as she knew I really loved her and cared about her. But she had different views on right and wrong. She gained my trust and did things her way without me knowing.

I feel regret that I was so controlling and my 16 year old had to lie to me. I feel for you and understand you really have no choice, because you know your parents truly love you.

Let us know how you are doing today?

Kate xx

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I'm getting baptized

by BlackWolf in

jw
friends

i know i've started similar topics before but this time i'm serious.

my parents have been constantly pressuring me and after yesterday's watchtower study they asked me if i was going to be baptized this summer... and i said yes.

i probably should have thought about it more before making a final decision, but they're pretty much forcing me to do it anyway.

KateWild

This thread is not annoying Blackwolf. You are being coerced and forced to do something.

Before you know it you will be pioneering and then getting married to a ministerial servant who will force you to do things you don't want to do aswell.

I understand you have no choice and you have no freedom. I gave you my number so we could talk properly on wifi......but you can't even get the freedom to talk to people without your parents knowing.

The sad thing is they think it's in your best interest and we know it's not.

Keep posting I will support you Blackwolf.

Kate xx

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I'm getting baptized

by BlackWolf in

jw
friends

i know i've started similar topics before but this time i'm serious.

my parents have been constantly pressuring me and after yesterday's watchtower study they asked me if i was going to be baptized this summer... and i said yes.

i probably should have thought about it more before making a final decision, but they're pretty much forcing me to do it anyway.

KateWild

Blackwolf,

I have read most of your posts and see your dilemma. I am so sorry you're being pressured so much into doing something you really don't want to do.

I know you're only 16 and feel totally trapped and alone.....if there is something I can do I will Blackwolf.

I know you like drawing and horses. Focus on these interests for now.

Take care

Kate xx

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Understanding The Bible ... The "Linchpin" Effect

by Littleleslie in

understanding the holy bible.. .

after many years of study of scripture, our bible study group has discovered something very important that needs to be realized or absorbed, before one can come to a correct understanding of the bible.

we call it, the "linchpin" effect... .

KateWild

I consider bible-nonsense like this to be nothing more than spam. - Simon

I understand your point Simon. The reality is if genuine people see both sides of the argument they can draw their own conclusions. I don't agree with LL, but the posts are clearly nonsense to those doubting and searching for the answers.

I think having nonsense to draw from in contrast to logic can be a benefit......don't you agree?

Kate xx

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Had a weird love-bombing throwback today......

by dubstepped in

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my wife is having her first birthday party in july, and we're looking for a place to hold it.

we found an episcopal church online that offered their fellowship hall for such occasions, and we went to check it out this morning.

when we arrived they were having something in the hall and were setting up for it.

KateWild

It's good that you have people to invite to a birthday party. I have celebrated my birthday twice since I left and the kids have too.

It's always been very small and quiet.....no one to invite.

Kate xx

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Nice weather this weekend. Made me think.....

by punkofnice in

there was a time when as a family, we'd host a bbq in our large back garden.

we'd have a small gazebo, tables and chairs.

the reggae music would be pumping out but not too loud.

KateWild

Fair point Rebel. Being sad is letting them win. We can't have that xx

Kate xx

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Nice weather this weekend. Made me think.....

by punkofnice in

there was a time when as a family, we'd host a bbq in our large back garden.

we'd have a small gazebo, tables and chairs.

the reggae music would be pumping out but not too loud.

KateWild

Rebel, being divorced and df'd.....is the most isolating way to leave WT. Not many can understand how it feels.

I understand where Punky is coming from and feel for him.

Your positivity is great. But sometimes we have bad days.

Kate xx

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I'm still on my JWN holidays but had to pop back to share this experience.

by nicolaou in

i'm a postman with the royal mail and was assigned to train a new starter yesterday.

my line manager introduces me to 'dave', within seconds my jw radar was on maximum!

in his mid to late 30's, politely spoken and with that haircut - i just knew it.. the post he'd applied for was saturdays only, he said he did a lot of volunteer work.

KateWild

Hey Nic,

That's a lovely experience. I would do exactly the same Myself. Being kind to people who are stuck in a cult is the right thing to do.

Take care and keep us updated.

Kate xx

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Nice weather this weekend. Made me think.....

by punkofnice in

there was a time when as a family, we'd host a bbq in our large back garden.

we'd have a small gazebo, tables and chairs.

the reggae music would be pumping out but not too loud.

KateWild

I remember the social events too Punky. I had lots of JWs round for parties and went to a few too.

It was all fake and to get that again is a pipe dream. We were all connected by rigid beliefs and rigid structure. That's what made us freinds.

I totally understand how you feel.

Kate xx

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“Even if this wasn’t the Truth, I need the structure.”

by Londo111 in

i remember many years back a fellow ministerial servant saying this to me.

he felt that even if jehovah’s witnesses were not the only true religion, the regimented routine of meetings and field service and the strict rules and enforcement provided a beneficial structure for his life.

at the time i thought if this wasn’t “the truth”, i’d have no need for all that “structure”.

KateWild

Thanks Londo for this thread. I like structure and routine in my life. Since leaving WT I haven't had as much and feel a little lost and insecure.

I often think about going back just for the daily routine and structure.......but then my internal sense of justice kicks in and my integrity.

I can't possibly be a part of something so corrupt and cruel to the vulnerable. Besides I would have to go through reinstatement which is unloving and uncaring.

But I do understand this MS perspective and his need for routine and structure.

Kate xx