only 25% of women achieve orgasm through "normal intercourse" and especially missionary
if only 25% of women achieve, it's not the 'norm'. Obviously the researchers are defining 'normalcy' by the way MEN easily reach ejaculation (i.e. intercourse).
my definition of normal sex: two consenting adults achieving mutual pleasure via their mutually-agreed-upon method.
logansrun, 6 FEET OMG!!! oh, TALL, now I get it.
jess, tinkerbell makes some good points. and your weight gain should have NOTHING to do with this, sweetie!!
Most of all, I think women (in general) need to learn to love themselves and their bodies so we can relax and let go. That was the key for yours truly. Hopefully you two can talk and possibly experiment a bit. Also, there's no reason why he can't take care of yours AFTER his.
nuff said
hope things improve!!
tal