I understand the "hurt and anger"... that is perhaps the strongest part of this board... the healing, friendship and the sharing of emotions..
But what I was refering to is the .... tacky? stuff.
I recently wrote my own letter to the Society. I assured myself that I had something that would make a good statement. But then the more I read it, and the more I shared it with others.... I realized that it made me sound like a .... fanatic? I trashed it. Two other members here, kinda reminded me just to slow down a bit... get the facts first.
Had I sent that letter, the boys at Bethel would probably just be saying "lookie another weirdo"... they could have used that letter to prove their own point "that the world is against them because they are truly 'god's' people".
that is all I was trying to say. DONT GIVE THEM THE AMMO TO SHOOT YOU WITH. But that isn't suggesting that you dont say what you feel. Facts will kill the watchtower. Truth is their poison. Our hurt IS their shame... but we may invalidate it if we look like a bunch of nuts.
That is why I sorta torment the "prophets" on here.... no time to be polite... sorry. This is a fight to the finish you know.