I am just going to answer the question!!!
My first wife didn't know anything about JW's until she was 17, and started to study, and got baptised. She had been with a number of guy's, starting at the age of 12. We got married when we were both 20. I had never even seen another girl naked, except my sister. So I didn't have a clue what to do with my new wife!! The first time I saw her totally naked, she laid down on the bed, and said, I'm all yours! I really didn't know what to do, and for some reason she thought I too had been with others girls. When I told her that i hadn't, she smiled and said that's OK I can teach you!!! And she did!! That was the best four years of my life.
Sadly she just up and left one night, while i was at work. No note nothing. It was 20 years later, before I saw her again. All those years of first blaming her, then myself. Only to find out, she had grown to HATE the borg, and was scared to tell me. I really think if she had told me, I would have left it with her!! I still love her, and will till the day i die!!!