Viv, so we can't call out bullying because someone else said something cruel to you? *confusing*
Of course you can had that happened.. But I haven't bullied anyone, so, no, you can't. And, point of clarity, what was said to me was nasty and dishonest, it wasn't cruel.
"You stop mocking me first, then I'll reciprocate." So much for the high road.
That's not what I said, please be honest next time you attempt to quote me. And, BTW, when you're in the mud, you don't get to complain the other person is dirty.
It produces self-defensiveness and can make the ridiculer look bad to an onlooker.
Only when done incorrectly or against an undeserving target.