Viviane

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  Why does Antoine Leiris' powerful tribute to his wife, killed by ISIS in the Paris attacks, bother me so much?

  by nicolaou in

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  here is the translation of monsieur leiris' words;.

  friday night, you took an exceptional life - the love of my life, the mother of my son - but you will not have my hatred.

  i don't know who you are and i don't want to know, you are dead souls.

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  Viviane

  This man is part of the solution, if only there were more like him.
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  Book Review: The Hunt for Vulcan: . . . And How Albert Einstein Destroyed a Planet, Discovered Relativity, and Deciphered the Universe

  by Viviane in

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  i recently read this book and found it to be excellent.

  it's the story of how we never stop knowing, how science works (even when it doesn't), how gracefully math can describe the world we live in and more.

  the story begins with how sir isaac newton, author of pricipia mathematica and holder of the lucasian chair at cambridge, developed math to describe the gravity and the motion of the planets with no need god holding them in place.

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  Viviane

  No, Slim, it's not that at all.
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  Over-protective parent?

  by GrownMidget in

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  i was something like 20-21 and there was this young sister, maybe 16 who i happened to like back in the day ... uh oh ...we met in the summer convention because i made the first move while she was playing board games with her friend.

  we kept in touch via skype and text messages because lived kinda far from each other.

  eventually her mother heard of the stuff and said to her daughter that the chatting must stop.... well, when two people have a little crush on one another, it sure doesn't.

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  Viviane

  Joan of Arc was given command of the entire French army at 17.

  Exactly.
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  Book Review: The Hunt for Vulcan: . . . And How Albert Einstein Destroyed a Planet, Discovered Relativity, and Deciphered the Universe

  by Viviane in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  i recently read this book and found it to be excellent.

  it's the story of how we never stop knowing, how science works (even when it doesn't), how gracefully math can describe the world we live in and more.

  the story begins with how sir isaac newton, author of pricipia mathematica and holder of the lucasian chair at cambridge, developed math to describe the gravity and the motion of the planets with no need god holding them in place.

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  Viviane

  I recently read this book and found it to be excellent. It's the story of how we never stop knowing, how science works (even when it doesn't), how gracefully math can describe the world we live in and more.

  The story begins with how Sir Isaac Newton, author of Pricipia Mathematica and holder of the Lucasian Chair at Cambridge, developed math to describe the gravity and the motion of the planets with no need god holding them in place. It moves to the attempt to use those laws to explain the aberration in the orbit of Mercury, the proposal of a planet or body named Vulcan, near Mercury that was causing the irregularity in the orbit, how the hunt for that body proceeded and how, ultimately a leap forward was made by Albert Einstein and others in developing relativity, a far better model that described the universe and propelled up forward.

  It's also the story of how we examine ideas, how we are sometimes trapped by our own thinking, the limits of what we can know based on what we can measure and how science is self-correcting, open to inspection and as much art and inspiration as a rigorous process.

  It's not a long read (I read it on Kindle), I spent 2 days reading it and plan to read it again, mainly because I read parts of it late at night when I was tired. It's not heavy on math or theory, but it does explain them sufficiently so non-science readers will understand the points.

  I highly recommend it.
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  Question for believers, heaven or earth?

  by Tornintwo in

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  just trying to figure out what i believe in the wake of leaving the borg.

  jesus message appeals, of course.

  i just wanted to ask believers, christians, on this forum if you think the hope is heaven or earth.

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  Viviane

  My problem is that now I doubt the Bible.

  I fail to see the problem.
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  Over-protective parent?

  by GrownMidget in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i was something like 20-21 and there was this young sister, maybe 16 who i happened to like back in the day ... uh oh ...we met in the summer convention because i made the first move while she was playing board games with her friend.

  we kept in touch via skype and text messages because lived kinda far from each other.

  eventually her mother heard of the stuff and said to her daughter that the chatting must stop.... well, when two people have a little crush on one another, it sure doesn't.

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  Viviane

  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent

  There, we can look it up now. Age of consent is not a fixed thing everywhere. It may well be legal where they live but carry a 5 year prison sentence over the nearest border, that's why I've not brought it up.

  Morpheus and Simon both hit on the point I was hopefully making, that a 21 year old man may look at 16 year old and go "Whoa, hey now!", but to be interested in a romantic relationship with such a developmental difference, buy clothes, etc., doesn't speak well, especially combined with everything else we know about the OP.
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  Over-protective parent?

  by GrownMidget in

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  2. experiences

  i was something like 20-21 and there was this young sister, maybe 16 who i happened to like back in the day ... uh oh ...we met in the summer convention because i made the first move while she was playing board games with her friend.

  we kept in touch via skype and text messages because lived kinda far from each other.

  eventually her mother heard of the stuff and said to her daughter that the chatting must stop.... well, when two people have a little crush on one another, it sure doesn't.

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  Viviane

  I will reiterate: at best the OP is undeveloped 21 goofball who tragically has something in common with a 15 or "maybe 16" year old girl ( something unthinkable for me at his age and most other normal 21 year old men)

  The OP said he was born in the 90's, had issues to put it mildly, almost killed himself sometime after he quit going at 18, almost killed himself and had depression, then met this girl at a convention when he was 21 and is now married (still putting him in is early to mid 20's, 25 tops).

  This guy has had a lot going on in his 20's, a lot of it very... off. Once again for emphasis, there is a difference between going "wow, that person is hot", especially when one of them looks older than average for their age, and wanting to pursue a relationship with a 15 year old when in your 20's. There is a wide gulf of experience, emotional and intellectual maturity. I mean, what's he going to do, help her with her math homework?

  
  
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  Over-protective parent?

  by GrownMidget in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i was something like 20-21 and there was this young sister, maybe 16 who i happened to like back in the day ... uh oh ...we met in the summer convention because i made the first move while she was playing board games with her friend.

  we kept in touch via skype and text messages because lived kinda far from each other.

  eventually her mother heard of the stuff and said to her daughter that the chatting must stop.... well, when two people have a little crush on one another, it sure doesn't.

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  Viviane

  Physical age isn't necessarily the same as emotional age - it's possible that the 17 year old in a 17/22 relationship is the more mature, 'older and wiser' one.

  Agreed, but this is example is a "maybe 16 year old". There is a world of difference between 15 and 17, 18 and 20, etc.
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  Over-protective parent?

  by GrownMidget in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i was something like 20-21 and there was this young sister, maybe 16 who i happened to like back in the day ... uh oh ...we met in the summer convention because i made the first move while she was playing board games with her friend.

  we kept in touch via skype and text messages because lived kinda far from each other.

  eventually her mother heard of the stuff and said to her daughter that the chatting must stop.... well, when two people have a little crush on one another, it sure doesn't.

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  Viviane

  For goodness sakes you guys are over sensitized and a bit OTT

  Anecdote != data.

  Sure, sometimes it works out. But a "maybe 16" year old (meaning possibly and probably 15 year old) being courted by a 21 year old is not the same as a 20 year old dating a 26 year old. There is an emotional maturity difference, a life experience difference that makes it, to me, very weird that someone in their 20s, old enough to drink, drive, have a job, live on their own, would be intellectually and sexually interested in a sophomore in high school
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  What is it like to have that one true friend?

  by My Name is of No Consequence in

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  what is it like to have that one true friend?

  growing up in the org, i never really had friends.

  i had many acquaintances, some of which were worldly.

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  Viviane

  I'm now a firm believer in moving on when relationships aren't healthy. The sooner, the better.