I can understand that, Simon, and I can certainly make that effort. Since we're discussing behavior, we have seen on this thread people deciding they get to claim I said things when I did no such thing. We see people suggesting I have mental problems. We see people calling me names. We see people using misogyny to dismiss me.
I don't recall ever complaining to you or threatening to quit the forum or sending people ultimatums in PM.
Sure, I can use more sugary words when I call people out for their behavior, but let's (as a group, not directed at you personally, Simon), be honest. I am subjected to far worse behavior (see Eden's quit thread and what people said about me there which, you'll notice, I've read and ignored except to use as an example here) by people claiming to be be nice and respectful and loving but who will in a second be nasty and mean in a heartbeat as long as they're ganging up on the right person.
And you know what? That's fine by me. I'm not complaining. I'm not coming to you with names. I'm not firing off PMs angry about it or denigrating them in forums.
I wonder what we can glean from that.