Anyway with the greatest respect Vivianne I believe many " people" come here looking for answers, yet with your sharp and logical mind, I believe many "people" leave here not understanding your fascinating and compassionate heart.
what does an answer have to do with my heart? If you ask what 2+2 is, the answer has nothing to do with whether or not some is a murderer or a social worker.
Well I gave it my most positive shot, because I am sure no past or present poster has thought you evil, but surviving with you is a challenge :-)
I've no idea what you mean. I am sure some people do think I am evil. So what? What do I care if someone values feeling good over reality?
What makes a poster feel qualified to comment with absolute authority on any subject?
What makes you think anyone even slightly educated in logic would fall for this strawman?
Or, to put it another way, what makes a poster feel qualified to comment on other posters with absolute authority, such as this OP?