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  Is Having Kids Worth It?

  by Prisca in

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  ok, i'm a single female in her early 30s looking for someone to settle down with.

  i'd like to have kids, but the trouble with dating guys who are over 30 is that by now most have a kid and/or have decided they don't want any/more.

  so i am getting faced with the dilemma of maybe finding that someone special, but he may not want to have kids.

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  Andune

  I don't know how to edit, so I will add another post.

  Don't have kids unless you really want to, and you will know when you really want one. It had almost become an obsession with me, and I didn't just want a baby, I wanted the whole experience. I have three younger sisters, one who is twenty years younger than I, so I have had a lot of experience with young children. I was also exceptionally lucky; I had an easy pregnancy, easy labor, and my daughter is what my midwife called a decoy baby, the sort who starts baby booms because everyone wants one. With all that, I do not think we will ever have another one. Even our easy daughter is a lot of work, and takes a lot of attention.

  Bottom line, you will KNOW if you want one. Good luck with whatever you decide, and whatever happens.

  Shannon
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  Is Having Kids Worth It?

  by Prisca in

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  2. family

  ok, i'm a single female in her early 30s looking for someone to settle down with.

  i'd like to have kids, but the trouble with dating guys who are over 30 is that by now most have a kid and/or have decided they don't want any/more.

  so i am getting faced with the dilemma of maybe finding that someone special, but he may not want to have kids.

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  Andune

  Don't give up on men over thirty. I was nineteen when my boyfriend (now husband) and I started dating, and he was thirty two. He had never been married, and had no children. It's five years later, we will celebrate our third anniversary this year, and we have an eighteen month old daughter. She is the single best thing I have ever done, and I love sharing her raising with her wonderful dad. He is the best husband and father that one could hope for.

  I love our daughter so much. She is the light of my life. I love seeing how she changes every day. We still do all the things we used to do before we had her, in fact, we are going on a week long cruise this year with her. We are lucky, she is a very easy baby.

  Don't give up

  Shannon
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  Would you?

  by donkey in

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  scenario 1: if you could guarantee that you would not get caught would you steal a million dollars?.

  scenario 2: if you could guarantee that you would not get caught would you steal a million dollars from the wtbs?.

  scenario 3: if you could guarantee that you would not get caught would you steal a million dollars from a bank?.

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  I work in a bank, and our region security officer said that if we could lay our hands on a million dollars cash to take off. He'd love the free trip to South America.

  My answers to all the questions are no. I'd love the money but if it came down to the wire I just don't think I could do it. Maybe the WTBTS.

  Shannon
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  Just introducing myself...

  by Andune in

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  my name is shannon, and i usually post on the exjw's forum.

  this one has been mentioned several times, so i thought i'd mosey on over and see what it was like.

  if anyone is interested, i was raised in the borg, and i left five years ago at 19 years of age..

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  Andune

  Hey Rhonda, I know you.

  Sandy, I am from the Santa Cruz mountains. Twenty minutes from the beach. I have an aunt and uncle who live in Saugus.

  Shannon
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  Just introducing myself...

  by Andune in

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  my name is shannon, and i usually post on the exjw's forum.

  this one has been mentioned several times, so i thought i'd mosey on over and see what it was like.

  if anyone is interested, i was raised in the borg, and i left five years ago at 19 years of age..

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  Andune

  Big Tex,

  I'm normally on the Ex-JW's Forum at beyondjehovahswitnesses.com, at least I think that's it. Some of the faces here are familiar.

  Shannon
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  Just introducing myself...

  by Andune in

  1. jw
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  my name is shannon, and i usually post on the exjw's forum.

  this one has been mentioned several times, so i thought i'd mosey on over and see what it was like.

  if anyone is interested, i was raised in the borg, and i left five years ago at 19 years of age..

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  Andune

  Thanks, guys.

  You can be as nosy as you want, I don't mind. I'm pretty nosy myself. Hey Rayzorblade.

  Shannon
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  Just introducing myself...

  by Andune in

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  my name is shannon, and i usually post on the exjw's forum.

  this one has been mentioned several times, so i thought i'd mosey on over and see what it was like.

  if anyone is interested, i was raised in the borg, and i left five years ago at 19 years of age..

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  Andune

  My name is Shannon, and I usually post on the exJW's forum. This one has been mentioned several times, so I thought I'd mosey on over and see what it was like.

  If anyone is interested, I was raised in the borg, and I left five years ago at 19 years of age.