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  Best Healing... Leave or Stay JWD...

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
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  my girlfriend is saying to me... .

  just write a letter of disassociation, and join some other chat group and move on.

  she loves you guys, because i often tell her about "what's going on here.

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  Confucious

  Fleur,
  
  See if you can go back to some of my old posts.
  
  There is one that Lady Lee put on her best of dating.
  
  For about a year, I was dating a JW and thought I could go back and just be the JW that goes to the meetings and never really goes out in service and all that.
  
  You should read that post.
  
  It's pretty interesting.
  
  Bottom line is...
  
  I cannot conscientiously become a JW becaue to do that - would be me being disloyal to God.
  
  After what I know (and we all know now), how can you go back.
  
  If I did, I would be a hypocrite.
  
  con
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  Best Healing... Leave or Stay JWD...

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my girlfriend is saying to me... .

  just write a letter of disassociation, and join some other chat group and move on.

  she loves you guys, because i often tell her about "what's going on here.

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  Confucious

  Fleur,
  
  I went and stayed away for about 6 months.
  
  In fact, during that time, I attempted to be a dub again.
  
  Anyway... printed this thread out and feel good about my decision.
  
  I REALLY need this place right now.
  
  Con
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  Best Healing... Leave or Stay JWD...

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my girlfriend is saying to me... .

  just write a letter of disassociation, and join some other chat group and move on.

  she loves you guys, because i often tell her about "what's going on here.

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  Confucious

  Thanks guys.
  
  And thanks Rabbit.
  
  Con
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  Do you like to get drunk???

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  been going through a lot lately.

  feeling the depression creeping in every once in awhile.

  who here likes to pound back a few beers???

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  Confucious

  4 or 5 American Beers.
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  Do you like to get drunk???

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  been going through a lot lately.

  feeling the depression creeping in every once in awhile.

  who here likes to pound back a few beers???

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  Confucious

  I stopped drinking Hard Liquor after my last throw up expisode.
  
  5 beers. 6 tops.
  
  And it's all good...
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  Do you like to get drunk???

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  been going through a lot lately.

  feeling the depression creeping in every once in awhile.

  who here likes to pound back a few beers???

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  Confucious

  I'z lie-k it...
  
  A lot of responses to this thread...
  
  Quite frankly... I do some of my best thinking on a couple of beers.
  
  Some people (I'm in the arts field) say that a little pot does the trick.
  
  But I'm a firm believer in about 4 to 5 beers.
  
  Con
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  Do you like to get drunk???

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  been going through a lot lately.

  feeling the depression creeping in every once in awhile.

  who here likes to pound back a few beers???

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  Confucious

  Ok,
  
  Been going through a lot lately.
  
  Feeling the depression creeping in every once in awhile.
  
  Ok...
  
  Who here likes to pound back a few beers???
  
  I'm good at like 4 or 5 beers. Just enough to get toasty, but not enough to run down the street naked... know whatImean???
  
  Love you guys.
  
  I'm toasty now...
  
  Con
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  Best Healing... Leave or Stay JWD...

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my girlfriend is saying to me... .

  just write a letter of disassociation, and join some other chat group and move on.

  she loves you guys, because i often tell her about "what's going on here.

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  Confucious

  Well, I do know that I'm NOT reaady to leave this board.
  
  Because there is really no JW's left in my life - except for the few stragglers here and there.
  
  But it does feel good to remind me that I'm NOT out of my mind.
  
  I remember those times when I was "alone" in the borg where I would wonder - "HELLO??? Am I the ONLY one here that can see the hypocracy???"
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  Best Healing... Leave or Stay JWD...

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my girlfriend is saying to me... .

  just write a letter of disassociation, and join some other chat group and move on.

  she loves you guys, because i often tell her about "what's going on here.

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  Confucious

  Thanks guys.
  
  I'm reading this thread with great interest.
  
  I went ahead and printed it out for my girlfriend so she can understand this better.
  
  Thanks.
  
  Con
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  Best Healing... Leave or Stay JWD...

  by Confucious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my girlfriend is saying to me... .

  just write a letter of disassociation, and join some other chat group and move on.

  she loves you guys, because i often tell her about "what's going on here.

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  Confucious

  My girlfriend is saying to me...
  
  Just write a Letter of Disassociation, and join some other Chat Group and move on.
  
  She loves you guys, because I often tell her about "what's going on here."
  
  But she like... well just move on and forget the WT forever.
  
  I've been trying to explain to her how difficult it is.
  
  I mean, she is NOT against JWD. But she's trying to help me move on.
  
  Because sometimes there is so much pain with this religion and I want to move on - but there's a lot of hurt.
  
  Comments???