I just came upon this thread.It's quite a story.First of all Kwin,I commend you for the stand you're taking on this personal issue.Do you realize how many jw's/ex-jw's would just walk away and not say a thing?What this receptionist did was expose the hypocrisy of jehovah's witnesses and will bring "shame upon the local congregation".
Stand tall,think about it wisely and I'm sure you'll come up with a good decision Kwin.Or,you could always....."Wait on Jehovah to take care of it". Sorry,I just couldn't help myself.
Goldminer