Why do women do this??? (page 3)

Margie

I think that when a guy is with a woman, it's like he has the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval. That is, a woman has already screned him and found him to be domesticated (for lack of a better word).

Smiles_Smiles

I know some women who like to get with men who are married or taken. That way it can be a purely physical relationship with no strings or expectations.

And then some feel an ego rush to take a person out of thier relationship.

My question is - why did your friend (girl) get irritated if she truly has no interest in you other then a friend. When I am with my guy friends that are only friends - I help them get numbers from girls if they are interested in a certain one. Hmmmm....

dezpbem

My question is a sincere question. I'd like to have a million dollars for every time I've heard a guy say, "She wants me." because a woman happened to be looking in his general direction.

Yes I agree most men do think that way.

Did you look behind you? Maybe there was a TV behind you, or another man.

Your turn; reread what I wrote (smiles). The girl I was with was upsetted by women looking at me. i'll give more detailShe was upset because she noticed them looking at me. We discussed it. She has it happen alot on dates, etc. I tried to ignore them so she wouldn't feel bad. . It was disrespectful toward her and I agree. Not a floating tv set that wasn't there behind my back that they were peeping, not lesbians looking at her while my stupid overgrown male ego assumed they were looking at me, etc, lol! I'm not the typical egotistical kind of guy that assumes that just because a woman looks it means "she's into me." I'm humble. Far from full of myself. The majority of the time that a woman looks at me it's nothing more than a glance, a look, or a regular smile.

. I'm not saying that women don't do this to you, but the fact that they aren't looking when you are alone should tell you something.

That was my point exactly. Add on the fact that nearly every male I know has the same experience and you see there's something going on.

. And then maybe those women are playing a game, trying to see if they can get men who they think or married or on dates to look at them, for varying reasons. One could be they like the man, another could be they just like attention and attention from an attached man is a higher score.

I can't speak about the area your from. Here in the USA among the younger age groups women try to steal each others men like it was a hobby. That's no exaggeration. There's a huge amount of hostile competition between women sexually. It's really stupid. And thus my question as to why women do this. This post wasn't about "hey these women keep looking at me!" The purpose is the question I asked. The question comes from the events of the night which happen to center around a common experience of women doing this. IMO it's uncalled for and disrespectful hostility/competition between women.

Hell most men couldn't care less that a woman's feelings get hurt by that (some women anyway) and like it. I'm not kidding at all. I see a lot of guys brag about it. I like attention from women as much as anyone does but not at the expense of a friend or girlfriend's feelings.

dezpbem

My question is - why did your friend (girl) get irritated if she truly has no interest in you other then a friend. When I am with my guy friends that are only friends - I help them get numbers from girls if they are interested in a certain one. Hmmmm....

Lol. Good point.

But she's had problems in the past with other women trying to take her men so it could just be old wounds having a nerve struck. I assume that's the reason.

Soledad

Here in the USA among the younger age groups women try to steal each others men like it was a hobby

Desi you should know, around here that IS a hobby!! Ever watch Ricki Lake??

Smiles_Smiles

Hey Dude, are u sure u want 2 'assume' on that one?

dezpbem

Desi you should know, around here that IS a hobby!! Ever watch Ricki Lake??

HAHAHAHA! Yup, welcome to nyc! We guys get the same problem too. It just used to be less prevalent among women. BACKKKK in the days, LOL! You ever have that problem here?

AuldSoul

FHN: Maybe when you are alone, the gals are intimidated. When you have a girl with you, the gals assume you are attainable.

Maybe when he's alone they think he may be homosexual (all the good ones are either married or gay) and they decide he's not when he sits down with a hot looking woman.

dezpbem

Hey Dude, are u sure u want 2 'assume' on that one?

LOL!

Think i'll change the title of this thread to

ASSUMPTIONS AND WHY WE DON"T NEED THEM!

Smiles_Smiles

tehehee

Yeah exactly, eh?

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