Hi bonnie-clyde
You said, "One of the elders (then called servants) was at our door, and convinced me that I should not go. What never occurred to me at the time was that he himself was college educated"
I know an elder who was college educated too. Went as far as obtaining a doctorate... all this during the yester-years when the WTS was vehemently opposed to any "higher learning" outside of Gilead Missionary School. Naturally, this elder had to forfeit certain priviledges of service in the congregation. From PO to "peasant".
Anyway, you'd think someone with that sorta background would today be singing a more liberal tune, but NO.... having returned from exile, the "re-instated" dr. elder gladly warns young ones today that they are bound to be tempted by the world if they choose this path (Mmmmm much pain and suffering for you younglings i see!). And the odds are not on their side. They would never come out of it unscathed.
Of course he naturally forgets to mention the need to re-climb the theocratic ladder (as he had done) or the unfriendly glances one would acquire for the duration of the said enterprise. Cos those disadvantages do not reflect badly on tertiary education per se. It gives the witnesses a bad name too.
He has no qualms about dispensing this sort of advice to youths. In fact he's been proudly announcing to the brothers that he is actually in the best position to speak to youths BECAUSE he has been well-educated and has seen the world for what it is. I'd be lying if I said I have any respect for this once-a-rebel-now-a-tyrant individual.
Anyway, I guess what I'd learnt from your experience and from what this elder has been doing is that: Witness youths should NOT limit their source of advice about education to the WTS. The Society has been duplicitous on this issue as have some who claim to represent youths' best interest.
Listen to critics of the anti-college camp before deciding on which side the coin of your life should fall.
INQ