Thanx for your posts Scully and Inquisitor. That brother never did have much tact, but you can count on him to always tell you what he really thought. :)
In fairness to him, I don't believe he was trying to publically put me down personally and on purpose. He was just very eager to validate the teachings of his Mommy. My story was just what he wanted to hear so he seized on it.
FinallyFree
Yeah, I do see that he had a valid point and so do you. I should stop sulking and see how I may work harder and smarter to be more of a success. It was just offputting to me because I clearly saw myself as a convenient casefile for the Borg to point to. I should take that valid statement though and work smarter personally so that it won't apply to me and so that I won't be an example they'd love to mention.