So, come on guys. Who else has lost a best friend to such a situation? Am I the only one?
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by John Doe 13 Replies latest jw friends
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theinfamousone
OH MY GOD!!! i was just thinkin about this when i stumbled on your thread... hee hee... one of my best friends. if not my best friend, we went to HS together and to the same cong... we loved each opther as friends, one day slipped made out... later on made love and the rest is history. it just got so awkward, then she got diffed and i completely lost touvh with her, it sucks... i miss her so much
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anewme
John Doe, Love can go either way. If her husband had not responded in the way he did, she might be yours.
There are alot of people to love out there in the world. I do not believe in the one and only theory.
Think about it. Meeting someone is a chance thing. One day you wake up and walk down the street and happen to turn left and happen to feel hungry and happen to go into a restaurant a friend recommended and happen to have to wait to be seated. While waiting, a young woman also walks in and must take the seat beside you and the two of you begin to talk.
Or you turn a corner at work and by chance bump into a beautiful woman.
Or the person you expected to see at some appointment gets sick and its a different person and you fall head over heels.
Going to the same school, living on the same block, shopping at the same store, working in the same building are all chance things.
When it doesnt work out with one person it is not the end of the world. How could a chance meeting turn in to the end of the world?????
If that person didnt happen to meet you, then another person would have come into your life.
I truly believe there are millions of people we could be with right now. -
John Doe
I think you misunderstand me, anewme. The romantic aspect is not what I'm remorseful for losing, it's the friendship. Numerous chances for meaningless romantic bs present themselves everyday. I've never been one to get caught up in such stuff. In fact, I'm reticent to admit I have let such feelings have any power over me.
I'm not an easy person to understand, and I'm unconventional on most of my thinking. Finding someone I relate to is rare. To have such a thing lost over silly romantic crap has to be one of life's greatest tragedies.