regular, like once a year?
ball sacks rule
just do it, don't think about it. when mitch and i say something like, what about tonight, it never works out
the only way it happens is if we are in bed and we just do it.
What's the key to regular sex in a long-term relationship?
by happysunshine 46 Replies latest social relationships
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eyeslice
I was listening to an item on the radio the other week about male sexual impotence and does the male libido diminish with time. Interestingly, the doctor commented that often a male who thought he had a lack of sex drive changed when he got a new mistress. It seems that with men at least, fancing your woman has a lot to do with it.
I have been married for 28 years and still fancy my wife like mad. She is still extremely good-looking and attractive. So may be that is the answer,; find someone who you will still fancy in 30 years time.
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AuldSoul
My wife would have a thing or two to say about that suggestion, Ned. I don't think she'd be too keen on sharing me...which, oddly enough, proves the point I was trying to make.
Welcome, Ned! "You could learn a lot from a dummy."
AuldSoul (of the "I'm Old Enough to Remember That Ad" class)
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hamsterbait
Indifference.
I was on public transport, trying to meditate and zone out, but as I opened my eyes I heard:
"I was so sick of it all by then, I said - "and remember to pull my nightdress down when you've finished." "
HB
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lonelysheep
I agree with all of these by previous posters---
swinging
Enter into a long term relationship with someone you really like having sex with.
Don't have kids.
A bedroom door with a lock (if you have kids)
Just have several long-term relationships.
Don't Get Married!!!!!
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fairchild
Well, I am not married. I do believe that the desire to have sex can go down once you get older. There used to be a time when I loved having sex, longed for it, and had a fair amount of batteries in the house in case of an emergency. But now I hardly ever long for it at all, and the batteries have been untouched for a long time. A close friend who has been married for 12 years, says the same thing. She has sex with her husband once a month just because she feels that he needs it and that she should give it to him at least once in a while, but if it was up to her, it would probably be only once a year. Then I know other people my age who are still going strong and love it. I guess it all depends on the person but it can not be denied that the desire to have sex can disappear.