There is a fine line between "reproving" and "abusing". It changes based on which end your on I suppose. My mother is a witness, and I love her very much. I hate the idea of a bunch of strangers in Bethel who never have (or will) met my dad trying to tell her how to handle him and my little brothers. I watch her accept it as the word of God. They are trying to discourge the individual from growing by learning from experience. Instead replacing that with "control" and "organization". I love the people everyone of them. I hate the idea. Is this "wrong" in your eyes? Is it "wrong" in Bethal's eyes?
Your little brother,
David