Did you ever get any "Bad Advice" from Elders or Ministerial Servants?

by JH 29 Replies latest jw friends

  • Dune
    Dune

    This elder advised me to turn down an internship at the NSA. :-(.

    That was the last time i ever took any advice from a witness.

  • jojochan
    jojochan

    amen to that.

  • Gretchen956
    Gretchen956

    An elder (also my father) told me that if my husband was abusive to me it must be for something I was doing wrong.

    Sherry

  • AlmostAtheist
    AlmostAtheist
    An elder (also my father) told me that if my husband was abusive to me it must be for something I was doing wrong.

    (((Sherry)))

    That's just nuts, so sorry that happened to you!

    Dave

  • Forscher
    Forscher

    They told me to break off my engagement and not marry the lady I had promised to marry. We've been married 24 years!
    Forscher

  • FairMind
    FairMind

    A CO suggested that I might just be better off if I just went and shot myself. This was after I openly questioned our PO's stance on higher education.

  • jeanniebeanz
    jeanniebeanz

    "Prayer is the only cure for depression"

    "Suicide is punishable by Disfellowshipping."

    "If you husband can go three nights without a drink, he is not an alcoholic."

    "Your husband is your owner."

    WTF???

  • atypical
    atypical

    I was in a judicial meeting over alleged "porneia" from 4 years prior(4 years, in case you missed it) - At the first meeting, the chairman of the committee said that I was absolutely not to tell my wife why I was meeting with them! WTF!?

  • sass_my_frass
    sass_my_frass

    "Pray more often and engage yourself fully in the christian ministry, and your depression will go away!!"

  • sass_my_frass
    sass_my_frass

    "You will be blessed if you break off your engagement with this non-witness man."

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