hi moe,
you said
I want you all to admit it, males/husbands in the houshold usually get their way in serious family matters. We all know this is true in many cases.
i'm sorry but i can't admit something that isn't true in my case. with my parents, my mom was the one who made ALL the decisions. she did all the finances, heck, my dad didn't even carry a checkbook! if any of us wanted to go anywhere, we'd ask mom, if we asked dad, he'd tell us to ask our mom. mom was the final say in everything.
in my relationship, this pattern continued. i was never married but lived with a boyfriend for five years. in that time, i found all of our apartments (he didn't even see any of them until move-in day except for the last place we lived), i paid all the bills, i decided when to bring the car into the shop. all major decisions were up to me. he took care of the social part, like making plans with our friends.
so i can't admit something that is not true for me.
you also said this
Women are very fragile and everybody better watch out if she is having a bad day or has cramps.
hmmm, well, i'm NOT fragile!! this statement is straight outta the 50's! help me, i'm in a time warp here. lol
moe, i don't loathe you, i feel sorry that you can't see past these stereotypes and that you don't seem to realize, we can be anything we want to be. personally, i want to be myself and not a stereotypical women who needs to be coddled during "that time of the month" or who is thought of as "fragile" or "emotional".
love
harmony
ps. edited to add this: just because i have a pussy and tits does NOT mean i can't make a rational decision or think logically. pussy and tits SHOULD NOT limit you in any way!
Most people think, Great God will come from the skies, Take away everything And make everybody feel high. But if you know what life is worth, You will look for yours on earth: And now you see the light, You stand up for your rights.~~Bob Marley