Welcome, MisBehave!
We had several families living in the projects who went to the Hall. They used to give away their extra welfare cheese and beans and rice to the "friends" and to my parents, who studied with them. Seemed dishonest not to give back what they didn't need. I'm lucky, like you. I was born in, have faded, but never been shunned by my folks. I used to pray I'd be spared for living the best life I could. Now, I do that because it's the right thing to do, not because I believe God's coming to kill everybody who doesn't go to the Hall.