Hey, I'm all for roleplaying... been there, dun dat! But this really doesn't sound like the same thing.
Many of the things in that "contract" seem harmless to me in and of themself. However, this guy wanted her to basically be under his constant control. These were rules that she was expected to agree to and sign.
I think it takes a very weak man to expect to litigate "sexy" behavior from his wife. A strong man doesn't need to as the woman feels obligated to regardless. And vice versa, of course.