Stacey.
Yeah, I was trying not to use the "H" word!
If a certain form of behavior is ok for an "appointed man" who is an example to the flock, then it's ok for the flock.
Scenario for nytelecom1:
You become an elder and are on a committee. The accused has been reported because two witnesses heard him say that he was using forums which discussed anti-JW stuff and he frequently socialised with DF'd and DA'd people, didn't think it was wrong and wasn't going to stop.
WOULD YOU DISFELLOWSHIP THEM?