juni : Way ahead of ya, but thanks for the suggestion, I have CoC and ISoCF on the way ssshhh.... be vewy vewy quiet we're hunting JWabbits....don't want to get caught reading those things.....
Already read some of the online chapters.
daystar: Why today? - Well, no particular reason. Registered a few days ago, had some free time here at work, and saw another intro thread.
all: thanks for the advise, and yes I would like to stay married. My wife is a sweetheart, beautiful, and a much better person than I. I do realize that there is the possibility that things might get sour. My main reason for wanting to be all researched up before I even let a peep go. I will have to take a stand since my wife would be genuinely concerned for me if I just started fading for "no" reason. Although I do have some crazy family members.....nah, that wouldn't work since I am such a hard-ass when it comes to responsability for actions and such.
Just so's ya know, unlike many of you who despise the society, I feel no malice toward them since it is MY responsability to KNOW what load of BS I am accepting as I believe is the same for everyone else. This is the main reason I wanted to dig deeper. I wanted to have ROCK SOLID EVIDENCE that what I believed was FACT beyond ANY reasonable argument. Well, as I always say, ignorance is bliss!!