new girl

by nomoreTRUTHplz 27 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Victorian sky
    Victorian sky

    welcome!

  • jojochan
    jojochan

    Welcome to the forum.

    jojochan.

  • moomanchu
    moomanchu

    welcome

    It helps to talk to other people who have the same thoughts.

    It makes you realize your not crazy the religion is!!!

    If it was the truth what were they so afraid I would learn?
    I love this question, witnesses will give you a nice blank stare if you ask them this.
  • deeskis
    deeskis

    welcome,

    glad you're getting on with your life, thanks for sharing your story

  • serendipity
    serendipity

    Hugs no more and welcome to the forum!

  • Carmel
    Carmel

    wecome nomore.. You might ask your self "why wouldn't I celebrate X?" If your hesitation to do so is based on JW indoctrination, you might want to through your ideas out hear and see how quickly they evaporate under the heat of examination..

    Just a thought to help you get rid of the innoculation.

    carmel

  • delilah
    delilah

    Welcome, Nomore....we went through the same thing with our kids, when we left. For the first 2 years, we celebrated the holidays, but just didn't decorate, until the kids became more accustomed to it. As far as my family who are still "in", we just simply do not discuss any holidays that we celebrate, other than anniversaries.(How glum) It will become easier for you, and your children, as time goes on, and you sort out what you do believe in, and what you don't believe in.Eventually, ( our kids), grew older and decided for themselves, that they no longer wanted to go to the KH with the grandparents. Hugs to you....I hope you stay here.

  • love2Bworldly
    love2Bworldly

    Welcome

    Kids bounce back easier than we adults do. Be glad that you and your daughter are out while she is so young. Be honest with her and tell her that you are a little confused about your beliefs right now--kids are a lot more intelligent than we give them credit for. I would be really careful about how much exposure you let her have in attending meetings though--you might try making special plans for you and her to spend time together and let her aunt or grandma know you are too busy.

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