What is the best way to be asked out? (page 4)

daystar

Hmm, I was just presenting that girl as an example of someone possibly being interested, but not being very clear about it.

So, if some guy makes a pass at you ladies, and you're not interested, how do you react?

In my experience, I've just been more or less politely ignored. I guess that's okay. Better than "Ugh! Hell no!" *slap!* Which, btw, has never happened to me. But, again, to the subtleties, I've also been turned down in ways that are not very obivous at all. For example, I ask a girl out. She says she can't that day because of <insert seemingly valid excuse here>. How many of those <seemingly valid excuses> should I have to be faced with before I know it's not going to happen? Two? Three? Restraining order?

Ladies, please don't do that. Just say "No, I'm sorry. I'm not interested." See? Much easier than stringing a guy on.

KW13

for me, i just like the opportunity ya know. an offer is an offer!

lonelysheep

Just say you think I'm cute or whatever and ask me out. Or make it very plain to me that you like me and if I like you, I will ask you.

Direct, just like that. A direct statement or question deserves a direct answer.

Or if you just want to f**k, you can tell me that too.

Can we really?! I have a hard time believing a man would go for that without calling her a slut.

damselfly

Dams, how would you react if you were to try something like that and the guy totally ignores it? Would he be an a$$hole for not falling for your damseliciousness?

That has never happened. I don't know what I would do. Pull out the lipgloss and try again? LMAO!!

Damselicious

lawrence

Since being separated of late, I ask women if they would like to get naked and hear poetry. If not, how about some cha cha?

Oroborus21

Are you guys kidding?

Listen: women want security, men want sex/companionship, period.

Show her that you have tangible material goods, that they are readily obtainable by you or that you are at least well-positioned to potentially acquire such, and you will have no problem attracting women.

As for communication, John Gray's (sp?) famous book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus spells out the obvious, you might want to check it out.

-Eduardo

daystar

Can we really?! I have a hard time believing a man would go for that without calling her a slut.

Everything has it's risk. I, however, believe in equal opportunity for both sexes. Besides, it is all in how you present it. If you were to say, "Damn, I really need to get laid... eh, you'll do", while I may go ahead anyway, there is something missing. If you instead say,"Daystar... mmmm... You have got me so turned on right now... let's go. I need you," keeping your eyes locked on mine. WOW!! No, no slut there. Just... hot!

KW13

"Daystar... mmmm... You have got me so turned on right now... let's go. I need you"

lol, man i wish that would happen to me but chances of that around here are pretty slim.

Finally-Free

Show her that you have tangible material goods, that they are readily obtainable by you or that you are at least well-positioned to potentially acquire such, and you will have no problem attracting women.

That's why I get hit on more now that I'm an old, fat, grumpy bastard than when I was young and good looking. That's also why I don't bother going out any more.

My tangible material goods will remain mine longer this way.

W

daystar

Damn, your lawyer's slip is showing again.

I have seen some broke-ass guys get some real, real hot girls. They may have been crazy, but they were hot.

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