Actually if you a chick you can ususally cry your way thru anything. There was a girl (I would love to give her name because she was an uber self righteous JW) that had an ongoing relationship with a much younger guy. The reason I bring this up is because they guy was constantly dinged by the JC but not her. She would cry and say he lead her on because he knew that she was lonely and wanted to get married, blah, blah, blah. This guy was roasted every time and nothing ever happened to her. The elders pegged him as trouble and that this sister was poor older lonely spinster sister who was misled by bad-boy so and so. The last time was the last straw for the kid and he broke it off with her for good and when he threatened to go public with it all, she poured paint on his truck, smashed out his windows, took a magic marker and wrote c*ck sucker on his front door" Yeah she was insane.
As for the last stunt she pulled, the guy went to court and pressed charges against her. but guess who got in trouble for this round, HIM, why because the JC again said he was leading her on and he should have gone to the elders to address the problem not the police. So the chick is still and uber self righteous JW and his DF'd and couldn't care less.
This girl should have gotten an Oscar for her performance. There were times when I thought the guys were treated much harder then the chicks.