Tell them in advance that you you will both audio and videotape any meeting you have with them and if they are not ok with that then there is no point in meeting.
I think they after me now!!!
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Balsam
The congregation I was in when I left had an Elder like that. He was constantly popping by my business which was in my home to chat and probe into our business. I hate that man and he totally thought women were stupid animals to keep changed to the house. Lord just thinking about that guy gets my blood boiling. LOL
You did the right thing don't talk to him without your husband being present under no circumstances.
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Double Edge
call him back and say :"Regarding the appointment - sorry.......wish I could but I can't. I'm a little depressed right now, and I don't want to discuss it, so I'll call you when I'm ready for any appointment".
{{{ click }}} keep 'em guessing and just ignore them.
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geevee
answering machine......caller id. Ignore him. Tell him you'll call him when you are ready...
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lawrence
If you let him in... kick him in the balls.
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Good Girl or Bad Girl?
If you let him in... kick him in the balls.
Wait...can you get DF'd for kicking an elder in the balls?
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Mary
Um, remember you live in a free country and you are under no obligation whatsoever to meet with this guy.
However, if you want to make sure he doesn't bother you again, Google "bubonic plague" and "symptoms" and see what comes up. Tell him you've got several of the symptoms and you don't think it's wise for him to come by.
Oh heck, here, I did it for you: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bubonic_plague
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Kaput
Wait...can you get DF'd for kicking an elder in the balls?
Only if he has any.
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cyberdyne systems 101
These type of Elders are quite common, they seem to move congregations like its going out of fashion and stir everything up, trying to sort out all the problems they percieve a congregation has. They end up upsetting everyone before they move on to their next victims.
CS 101
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AK - Jeff
Tell him there is no need - already six elders from different halls are calling on you to aid your 'spiritual' recovery. Four of them are holding short studies with you out of the most recent release [can't recall the name now], and they are all praying too with you almost daily. :But thanx.
That should send him into a confused spin for awhile. Might as well have a laugh.
Jeff