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At least you're out of there. It's funny what some JWs can get away with or convince themselves is acceptable. Some are good at playing the system. One of my sisters, an active witness, was married to a worldly guy. When they divorced she moved in with another worldly guy. The Elders came to council her but somehow she fobed them off. From what I heard she confused the crap out of them and they didn't know how to proceed. My sisters are quite unusual. They laugh and think the Elders are joking when they start comming over heavy.That combined with the saying "if you can't bluff them with science baffle them with bull shit" somehow keeps them out of the backroom.