Whatever Judah Ben S. is doing as far as education - good for him that he's making his own choices. I hope he continues to do that.
The problem lies with the organization putting the pressure on its members either by direct or indirect methods (orally or written) to influence their decision making. And then to top it off, equate the individual's decision with their personal standing w/God questioning that person's faith. They have set themselves up as a pseudo God - which they would quickly deny.
Their smug and haughty attitude is unforgiveable. They have NO BUSINESS sitting in any judgment seat. God has moral standards that we should follow for our own good and that is our choice. He is our Judge. Any organization that puts themself next to God and twists arms of their followers are reproachable and I feel in line for Divine judgment.
Juni