A Paduan: To answer your question: What spiritual help? Please check out the full testimony of the above poster. I have given details of how to find it in my reply to Shining One.
As for your point about,"Bible-believing church", being a broad term, I have to agree. Perhaps the kind of thing that I'm getting at is characterized by the following comment I read on a Christian message board recently. It was made as part of a thread regarding the Da Vinci code: "Sadly, in the LAST FEW REMAINING MOMENTS before CHRIST'S RETURN, the DEVIL is going to do anything he can to MISLEAD PEOPLE." My weekly quotes from ex-Christian message boards are directed at JW 'lurkers' who may be considering joining a church that preaches this kind of message.
If someone I knew were considering becoming a JW, I would encourage them to read ex-JW message boards. Similarly, if someone I knew were considering joining a Bible-believing church, I would encourage them to read ex-Christian message boards. Of course, just as someone considering becoming a JW may read JWD and decide that its just 'apostate' propaganda, so too, someone considering joining a Bible-believing church may read, ex.Christian.net, and decide that thats just 'apostate' propaganda. The choice is theirs, all I can do is encourage them to read those message boards, which will hopefully lead to their making a more informed choice about something that might have such a significant impact on their lives.