I am currently with someone that i have been with for several yrs and i have made a decision about the relationship and wonder whether i am doing the right thing.
Here's a test. Walk into a Psychic. Don't say anything, don't give your name or reason for being there. Ask them to tell you why you are there. If they are a true psychic they will need no more info at all.
if you want my personal opinion - your wanting to leave him? - well don't rely on people "reading minds" but instead be sure in your own minds that you chose the right reason, you are you and you have to live by the consequences of actions