Should you try and call an old dub friend? What if you did?

by gumby 41 Replies latest jw friends

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    If they've not contacteed you, in all that time, then it's a gamble. You're gambling some of your personal history and the feel-good factor that you had from some fond memories, against a couple of possible outcomes. Either they will respond positively, and you will retain a friendship, albeit modified as you've both changed. Alternatively the memory of the friendship will turn to dust, as they reject you.

    Statistically I'm gonna take a guess that it's more likely you'll be crushed. The house usually wins...

  • Nellie
    Nellie

    I hate to admit that I agree with LT - they've stacked the deck against all of us pretty well. Just remember how you would've reacted when you were "in." Actually, I never reacted as strongly as some - I guess that's why I was able to beat the odds.

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