Hi!! I think I'm in menopause too........I haven't had much of anything for at least a year except very very infrequent spotting............I'm 49 in August. I have all the classic symptoms, hot flashes, weight gain, and I just noticed that my hair is thinning.........when I brought the subject up to my gyno about 3 years ago, she said I was too young, but, didn't offer to test me........I hear they can. So, my next move is to have her test me to know for sure. I, too, have spent the last three years extremely fatigued..........but, put that down to the antidepressant and antianxiety drug I am taking..............I know, I've not been very responsible with follow through, but, guess I need to......I'm freaking out about the thinning hair big time.........I'll keep ya posted........you're not alone. Thanks for posting the subject!!!